I used to think exercise was best done solo. Running before dawn, hiking steep trails at my own pace, that kind of thing. The problem is, I don’t stick with any activity long enough for it to become a habit. Sooner or later, I lose my motivation.
Then, two years ago I met Donal, who owns a health club in my neighborhood. He often saw new members who had resolved to make a change. “They come regularly for a while, try out different machines. But they don’t really keep it going,” he said. “Many of them give up in a few months.”
How do you turn a resolution into a lasting routine?, I asked him. “Simple: Find a workout buddy or take classes,” he replied. “It’s easier if you’re having fun, if somebody else cheers you on and expects you to do the same.”
Health experts agree social involvement is an important factor in maintaining healthy behavior. At least one study found that husbands and wives who exercise together are far less likely to give up the habit than those who work out separately. Another study concluded that habits are contagious: We tend to mirror the behavior of the people around us, good or bad.
Common sense tells us that group activities discourage the excuses that get in the way of so many fitness plans. My friend Kate, a grant writer, has been meeting her running partner at the park three times a week for the past two years. “I don’t know that much about the rest of her life,” she marvels. “But we’re like teammates and cheerleaders for each other. Neither one of us wants to let the other down, so we show up on time and feel better for it.”
I recently began taking Kate’s advice — and listening to the experts — by making my routine more social. Most weekends, five to seven of us meet to bike or hike. Mondays and Wednesdays, it’s a spin class with a fantastic instructor and attendees I look forward to seeing each time. Tuesdays and Fridays are “date nights” when my wife and I run, walk, hike or swim, depending on our mood and the weather.
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For me, exercising in good company works better than anything I’ve tried in the past. Overall, I’m doing great, having fun and giving something back to my sweaty companions. And I’m proud to say that, this time, my resolution has turned into a healthy habit.
William Stearns is a career newshound who has given some of his best years to organizations like ABC News, NBC News, Time and Sports Illustrated. He lives in Brooklyn with his wife and son, who regularly remind him that this is the year he’s going to get more sleep and exercise every day (rather than just talk about it).
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