The first signs of depression hit when David M. was almost 60. He was consumed by thoughts of failure at a job he didn’t like, and scared of the friction in his failing marriage. He was overwhelmed with feelings of helplessness, anger and self-loathing. David was also exhausted – there were times when he couldn’t even muster the energy to sign his own name. “I was just feeling out of control,” says the 67-year-old Florida resident. “It’s the worst feeling I’ve ever had, including medical illnesses or physical injuries.”
Depression is often associated with teenagers or people nearing middle age. But it can have a devastating impact on seniors. Just ask one of the 6.5 million Americans 65 or older who are affected by the disorder. Without seeking help, the darkness of depression can invade every part of your life, making your senior years anything but golden.
For most people, depression is triggered by more than one factor. “Some have a vulnerability based on their genetics and the circuitry in their brains. Others have psychological vulnerability from the way they were treated growing up,” says Simon A. Rego, a chief psychologist at Montefiore Medical Center/Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York City and former board member of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America.
Gender can also play a role. According to Dr. Gabriela Cora, a board-certified psychiatrist and medical director of Aetna Behavioral Health, women are more likely to develop depression than men. This could be linked to genetic and hormonal differences in addition to environmental factors.
These factors can be made worse by life experiences common to seniors, such as the loss of a partner or friends, transitioning into retirement and chronic health conditions. A series of devastating events caused a downward spiral for Janet G., a 67-year-old New Jersey resident. After her husband was laid off and she was diagnosed with a precancerous condition, Janet grappled with persistent insomnia and feelings of despair. “I had no energy to socialize,” she says. “I cried a lot alone in the basement.” Janet couldn’t acknowledge she had depression, even though she had a family history of the disorder. “I kept waiting for the feelings to go away,” she says.
Social isolation is another common trigger for depression in seniors. Studies show there is a “loneliness epidemic” among older Americans that’s been attributed to everything from a decline in attending church and other organized activities to an increase in time spent online instead of socializing. Even relocating to a new neighborhood or town after retirement can make you feel lonely. “It’s not uncommon for people to move to a cheaper place when retiring and suddenly they don’t have family or friends near them,” Dr. Cora explains.
Depression can look different in seniors, and symptoms are often mistaken for a natural part of aging. Experts recommend seeking help if you have three or more of the following symptoms that last for more than two weeks and interfere with daily living:
A crucial first step is to speak to someone you trust, like your primary doctor, Dr. Cora says. He or she may want to examine you, since certain medical conditions like hypothyroidism, stroke and Parkinson’s disease can mimic signs of depression. Learn how depression and anxiety share some symptoms. Your doctor can also refer you to a licensed mental health counselor. If you prefer not to meet in person, there’s virtual assistance, where a counselor helps you via phone or video. If you’re an Aetna member, you can use the AbleTo support program to arrange phone calls or face-to-face videoconferencing with specialists who can help you address emotional challenges and develop an action plan in the course of eight weeks.
Whether you meet in person or online, the first line of treatment for depression is typically psychotherapy, or “talk therapy.” Your therapist can also decide whether medication is right for you. Remember, depression is nothing to be ashamed of. It is highly treatable so it’s important to take that first step and ask for help.
Making lifestyle changes as you age is also important to preventing or managing depression, says Dr. Cora, who tells older adults to pay attention to the “four pillars” of good health: nutrition, exercise, relaxation and sleep habits. Some helpful tips:
Though she was ultimately hospitalized for major depression, today Janet is home and active again. She continues therapy and medication, and despite two knee replacements and the dissolution of her son’s marriage, she has had no relapses. David is seeing similar success: After medication, psychotherapy, guided meditation and a weekly tennis game, he’s feeling optimistic once again. “Getting out of the house and around other people and talking and laughing are my go-to prescriptions for depression,” he says. “I try to be grateful for every day now.”
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Susan Donaldson James is a reporter whose health stories have appeared on ABC News, NBC News and WebMD. She now lives in bucolic Vermont, where she tries to keep up a healthy lifestyle hiking, skiing and doting on four grandchildren under the age of 3.
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